Our History: The Story of Children’s Cottage Child Care

The story of Children’s Cottage Child Care begins with a vision rooted in experience, family values, and a deep commitment to quality early childhood education.

After years serving as an executive with KinderCare in the East Bay, Mary Welch had seen firsthand the limitations of large, corporate-style daycare. In 1993, seeking a better way—and a better place to raise their young family—Mary and her husband Ray relocated to the Napa Valley with their three small children. Driven by a passion for nurturing young minds and a belief that child care could be more personal, more enriching, and more joyful, they purchased a small, local childcare center with big dreams for its future.

From the start, Mary and Ray focused on improving both the quality of care and the level of service. Their dedication quickly gained recognition: Mary was honored with a “Woman of the Year” award by Napa County for her contributions to early childhood education.

With the help of an SBA loan and a growing reputation for excellence, the Welches expanded to a larger location. This new space allowed them to open a full-service infant and preschool center, serving up to 82 children from birth through age five.

True to their vision, Children’s Cottage was never just a daycare. Drawing inspiration from educational philosophies like Reggio Emilia, Montessori, and Waldorf, the program emphasized a play-based, arts-rich, bilingual, and nature-connected approach. Every aspect of the curriculum was thoughtfully designed to support individual developmental needs, spark creativity, and lay the foundation for a lifelong love of learning.

Over the decades, Children’s Cottage has become a beloved part of the Napa Valley community. Thousands of local families have entrusted their children to this nurturing environment, where joy, discovery, and personal growth are at the heart of every day.

From its humble beginnings to its thriving present, Children’s Cottage Child Care remains guided by the same founding principle: that every child deserves a thoughtful, joyful, and meaningful beginning.

Celebrating Over 3 Decades in Napa Valley

Story from the Napa Valley Register

Ray and Mary Welch have been in the childcare business so long that the 2, 3, and 4-year-olds they used to teach are now having babies of their own. Babies that, like their parents, are attending Children’s Cottage Preschool & Infant Center. “It’s come full circle,” Ray Welch said. “This month, one of my preschoolers is getting married. Being in business 30 years, you get to see the long, full cycle of kids having kids.”

When Mary Welch first opened Children’s Cottage in Napa in 1993, she and Ray had three small children of their own. Mary, who had experience in childcare, said she thought that opening her business was smart since their family needed it too. About a year later, Ray joined the Children’s Cottage team. The kids call him “Papa Ray.” The Children’s Cottage philosophy is a mix of Montessori, Reggio Emilia and Waldorf philosophies, Ray Welch said, noting that his wife had “stolen” what she thought were the best parts of each childcare program. “It’s really child-directed,” Welch said.

Inside their building has light, airy rooms where nearly a dozen “learning centers” are setup. Each one teaches children something different through play; things like science, art, and drama. There is, of course, a block area and a circle time area, too, Welch said. “The kids have lots of options,” Welch said. All of the learning is directed by a teacher. The main building is a converted church with 3 beautiful large classrooms for toddlers, young preschoolers, and older preschoolers. The second building has an infant center with 3 rooms for babies and infants. The babies, Welch said, are the passionate part. “It’s kind of a labor of love because it’s one teacher for every three to four babies,” he said. “It’s much more intense and more involved than taking care of the older preschoolers.” Children’s Cottage has about 30 infants currently receiving care, he said. Childcare for infants 0-2 years old is a critical need, Welch said. “That’s where the huge crisis and the huge demand is for the whole state of California,” he said.

But figuring out its place in Napa hasn’t always been easy for Children’s Cottage. It has changed locations several times and was even temporarily housed in Crosswalk Community Church for a time. Finding the right location and the right size buildings was one of the business’s early challenges, Welch said. “Now we’ve got our permanent home,” Welch said of the Alta Heights location the childcare company has been running out of for the past 2 decades. “It’s a great old church built in the 1950s – the building is kind of a sacred spot for children.” The building at 1078 East Avenue has been used for childcare in one form or another since 1976, he said. The property recently went under a small remodel when Welch installed safe, low-maintenance artificial grass in the playground area. He also built a shaded deck so that children can still play outside when it rains. “It makes the playground more kid friendly and usable all year-round,” Welch said.

Mary doesn’t teach at the preschool anymore, but Ray still makes appearances. “I’m not in the day-to-day, but I have a lot of fun with the website and Facebook,” Ray Welch said. He also helps out with special events including the Halloween parade, the firetruck visit and Mother’s Day tea. “And, of course,” he said, “I get stuck with doing little repairs when something needs to be fixed.” As much as he enjoys it, though, someday Welch will get out of the business and let someone else takeover. Until then, though, Ray Welch said he’ll keep on doing his “hobby” of maintaining the website along with the occasional visit to the center. Those visits include dropping in on his own grandchildren, who just started attending Children’s Cottage.

“Full circle,” Welch said, again.